Le Grand Swipe: “On the first date he broke my cell phone”

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You necessarily know couples around you who are formed through a dating application. Maybe you’ve even experienced it. The big swipe tells these amazing stories of love or friendship 2.0 that start with a swipe, a like or just a message.

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Aude met Jules 5 years ago, via the Meetic application: “I was looking for love without really believing in it. I had had a series of bad dates with guys who were only looking for hookups, which he is not my type at all. That wasn’t even because I was looking for a certain type of guy, it’s just that they were all nice in chat and when they met it always ended up degenerating, I don’t know if it was me who sent something like that back, but it was painful. When I made an appointment with Jules, I was kind of done. Tired from my work week, not really made up or dressed to flirt, a little on the defensive. I was like, ‘I don’t want to fall from high again. And it was the exact opposite.”

Jules is shy and like Aude he is looking for love, the right one: “He was so sweet and shy that for a few minutes I thought it was a genre he gave himself. Guys had gotten me so used to it. to what whatever But actually, the longer the date went on, the more stressed he was. At one point he dropped his pint of beer right on my laptop, which was on the table. The screen went blank. exploded. On the first date, the guy broke my cell phone ! It was such nonsense I burst out laughing. He was horrified. So red I thought he was going to cry.”

The stupid accident

Jules undertakes to repair the phone at his own expense: “The rest of the deal we spent on a phone repairman to negotiate the price. I thought this deal would enter the pantheon of my deals. you’re the most screwed up. and then eventually I was touched by his feelings. He admitted to me that if he was so stressed it was because he liked me more and more and that he was afraid of screwing up. It was super sweet.”

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Jules accompanies Aude to her front door: “I loved her knight-servant side. I had a spare cell phone at home so I didn’t find myself stranded. I suggested we make a deal to see each other again, but on his terms . He invited me to dinner at his house and I accepted without hesitation. At this point I had complete confidence in him.”

It was Aude who kissed Jules first: “The evening with dinner, it was a bit in the air and it started to strain him, I felt it. I did everything to initiate a rapprochement. I sat next to him on the sofa , I stayed near him in the kitchen. But nothing. No opportunity. Finally, at the end of the evening, I went to his balcony to smoke a cigarette, and he came with me. He It was dark, we talked about our lives. When the smoke cleared, I asked him if he was okay with us kissing, and he said yes. He told me afterward that it was the first time he’d been asked.”

A balanced pair

The couple are now happier and more satisfied than ever before: “We have our own way of doing things. I’m the driving force and he supports me. I try to relieve his stress by being solid and taking on as much responsibility as possible. He , on the other hand is a rock when it comes to everything about the house, even if he doesn’t realize it. He manages tons of things. We have our apartment together, a cat that we I love it I hope to get one or two kids one day. I’m glad I gave her a chance and didn’t shut down when I saw her worries and my cell phone smashed. It was worth a screen. And that “It’s proof that there is no such thing as a perfect date. Looking back, I think ours was in its own way. Perfectly imperfect, just like us.”

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